Life is a very precious gift. We must be thankful to God for blessing us with something with which we are existing. God never created anybody without reason. He surely must have a reason in creating you so unique way. Life comes with a package of thick and thin times. no matter what may come, we should stand firm may be you feel that you are completely in trap by problems but think on the other facet, lock always comes with a key and so the problems comes with a solution argue with your thoughts that this is only an examination time God is testing you he wants to see the love and trust of his creature towards him. We should be patient when we go through the trough of life. It just comes and go, may be a little longer but never stay all time. Only after a storm comes a calm and after a dark night comes a bright morning.Same is the mechanism of life. in those weak times, we should not lose control over our heart and mind.
Always remember this “CHANGE IS PERMANENT”. Nothing will last forever! It keeps on changing so problems are also part and parcel of life. Suicide is the weakest action. What happens if you attempt suicide? It only proves that you were not strong enough to tolerate the situation. It declares that, you were impatient to wait for better time to come into your life. There is no point of taking such a drastic step. Don’t think that you are the only one on this planet who are facing problems. Don’t you ever think that “WHY ONLY ME” . If you complain god with this question, then why don’t you ask the same during your best times?
You may also feel that your prayers are not being answered during bad times and your believe on God will be on verge but then think why not God give punishment then and there itself when you commit a sin? The most crucial thing during this time is to keep faith on yourself and also your creatorit may be difficult to take things in optimistic way but it is not even impossible.
WHAT IF YOU COMMIT SUICIDE?
- Your dearest will lose you forever.
- Your place cannot be replaced and you will be remembered with unwanted sympathy.
- Your name will be added in cowards
- Your family and friends have to sink in shame when someone will takes your name.
Do you want to leave such an image of yourself ?
Do you want to reward you loved ones in this impression?
Can’t you live for the one who can die hundred times just to see you smile? Isn’t it better than giving your life in vain? Suicide is NOT a permanent answer for temporary problem! It will neither please god nor society.
WHAT IS THE OUTCOME OF SUICIDE?
The answer is simply “NEGATIVE” the daemon inside you will drag you to embrace this extreme step but it whole and sole depends on you and you should keep your angel alive!
WHAT IF YOU OVERCOME DEPRESSION, FEAR,STRESS AND SUICIDE?
- You will not be just a survivor but a fighter too, who fought a battle to win a life.
- You will not be less than a celebrity, in your own eyes and also for others.
- You will be a role model.
- You can be saver, an example for others who do the same thing
“THE BRAVEST THING THAT YOU CAN DO, IS TO CONTINUE LIFE WHEN YOU WANT TO DIE”
-By Shiya Fatima
Hyderabad, B.Arch. Final Year Student